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Sunday, April 28, 2013

A Point of Urgency: Why We Must be in Hungary This Fall


With only 60 days until our target departure date to Hungary, Jenn and I have pressed into the heart of God in prayer and, we have been filled with an ever-increasing God-given confidence that we will soon be in Hungary. Jenn and I know we were uniquely created for such a time as this!

I am a TCK
I am well suited for the task of ministering to third–culture kids (TCKs) because I am a TCK. I lived in Latin America during my junior-high and early high-school years. The experience molded me in both positive and negative ways.

The Good
Positively, I made life-long friends while I was overseas. My kids call one such friend Uncle, and I am proud to call him brother. I also see the world differently than most people who have never lived the TCK life. When I hear of events taking place, I am able to see many facets of the issue because I know how to empathize with people on every side. I can differentiate between that which is simply different and that which is truly a matter of right and wrong.

The Bad
Negatively, I, as a natural introvert, learned to isolate myself rather than face the emotional pain of saying goodbye. I learned goodbyes were not as painful if I did not get as attached. This also led to an increased difficulty in expressing my emotions...at all! Thankfully, I have learned – and am still learning – how to overcome these negatives through the power of Christ so only the positives remain.

The Redeemed
My experiences as a TCK uniquely prepare me to minister to these students. I understand first-hand the joys and challenges of living the TCK life because of my experiences. With over 20 different nationalities represented at ICSB, I will be able to use my cross-cultural skills to effectively communicate with the diverse student population. These skills will make me a more effective mentor and teacher.

A Passion for Teens
Jenn and I have been called to minister to TCKs. We have such a passion for reaching the next generation for Christ that our family mission statement and the missionaries we personally support financially have to do with reaching the upcoming generation for Christ. We also have extensive experience mentoring and discipling youth through campus ministries, Bible camps, and youth groups.

I Love Curriculum Design!
The delays Jenn and I faced in going to Hungary have allowed me to gain valuable experience as a teacher at a local community college. My confidence as a teacher has increased, working with a variety of students. My skill as a teacher has also increased teaching science-based content and developing hands-on activities that social-studies teachers typically do not have the opportunity to teach. Lastly, redeveloping the curriculum for three courses, has shown me I love curriculum development. I also discovered I am good at it, having been evaluated by the National Science Foundation!

A Point of Urgency
Jenn and I have reached a point of urgency! My experience at the college has uniquely prepared me to serve at ICSB this fall. The school will be reviewing their entire K-12 social-studies curriculum, and I love doing this work! I am good at this work. I need to be there in the fall to help the school complete this work.

For Such a Time as This!
Jenn and I have intensified our praying about Hungary over the past several months. The more we pray, the more certain we become that the time is now. We are confident we need to make it to Hungary this summer so we are there in time for the K-12 social-studies curriculum review.

A Call to Action
The only thing preventing us from going to Hungary this summer  is money. We are currently just shy of 70% funded. We know God has called some of you to partner in ministry to TCKs. Please prayerfully consider financially partnering with us in this important work. The time to act is now. We cannot move forward without you!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Send: Debunking the Top Five Myths About Missions

We talk to people about missions quite a bit. A lot in fact. We've come across several common misconceptions about missions and the money that missionaries live off of. We will now set the record straight on the top five myths of missions.


Myth #1: Missionaries are primarily supported by churches.


Once upon a time, this was a true statement. In the 1920s, American churches gave a minimum of 10% to foreign missions and spent more money on top of that for local ministry. According to Christianity Today, less than 3% of the funds collected by churches in America today goes to any outreach to unbelievers at all! In fact, only 0.1% (yes, that is one tenth of one percent) of all Christian income goes to global missions according to the Status of Global Missions Report in 2005. Sadly, according to a 2004 George Barna survey, only 15% of churches even consider missions to be a priority for their church!


Our supporting churches make up 8% of our total budget needs to serve TCKs in Hungary. We have found many churches are drastically cutting back on missionary funding and some are eliminating giving to missions altogether.


Myth #2: God only wants me to give cheerfully, so if I can't give cheerfully, I should not give.


Some Christians are quick to quote 2 Corinthians 9:7 to defend their lack of giving. God does love a cheerful giver, but we cannot ignore the commands in Scripture to financially give to missionaries. God has decreed missionaries be supported financially by all believers:

  • Paul and Jesus considered God's command to the Israelites to be about missionaries and other full-time ministers. To not give is to rob God and the missionary! (Deuteronomy 24:15, 25:4; Malachi 3:8; Luke 10:7; 1 Corinthians 9:4-14)
  • Jesus set the precedent. Jesus' living expenses were paid by others "out of their private means" (Luke 8:1-3).
  • Paul "robbed other churches" to serve others on his missionary journeys (2 Corinthians 11:8-9). Paul also included financial appeals to cover his living and travel expenses in his letters (Philippians 4:10-19)!
Paul expressed the need for those who support missions in Romans 10:13-15. It is God's desire that the world calls upon the name of the LORD to be saved, but they cannot do so unless individuals financially send someone to share the gospel!

Joy is the result of obedience, not the condition upon which we should obey. Jesus told the disciples that their joy would be complete after they chose to abide in his love by obeying his commands (John 15:10-14). In fact, Scripture tells us that joy comes as a result of making sacrifices, not before (James 1:2; Hebrews 12:2). Francis Chan said it this way, "There is greater joy in sacrifice than when we give just out of our excess."

Everyone who considers him or herself to be a Christian is commanded to give to missions (foreign and domestic). The question is not if a Christian should support missionaries, but which missionaries are God calling you to support with your finances.


Myth #3: I can't afford to support missionaries.


Most Christians believe this to be true if their giving habits are any indication. According to Christianity Today, only 27% of Christians tithe at all. Twenty-five percent give absolutely nothing to the Church or missions every year, while 36% give less than 2% of their income. 

What is fascinating is which American Christians do give. According to the same study, those making less than $12,500 per year give away over 7% of their income. This kind of generosity is generally absent from the middle class! It is not until households begin to make over $90,000 per year that a greater percentage of income is given away. 

Why are the poor so much more generous? Much of the middle class in heavily in debt. Debt is the biggest hindrance to giving. We are so consumed with coveting stuff that we go into debt to obtain it. The average American household has fixed expenses (largely constituted by debt) that make up 75% of the family budget! 

According to Randy Alcorn, "Abundance isn't God's provision for me to live in luxury. It's his provision for me to help others live. God entrusts me with his money not to build my kingdom on earth, but to build his kingdom in heaven." We could not agree more.

Alcorn's statement is backed by Jesus. In the parable of the talents, Jesus described the kingdom of God. Two slaves were given money and they invested it wisely so that the Master's estate was expanded. The third slave did nothing with the money but bury it in a hole. When the Master returned, the slave had nothing to show for it. The "worthless" slave was cast outside into darkness as punishment for his unwillingness to advance the Master's estate! (See Matthew 25:14-30.)

If we are not using the resources God has given us to advance his Kingdom, we are like the worthless slave. To use our resources to pay interest for houses, cars, and other material goods we bought on credit is worse than burying the resources entrusted to our care in a hole. 

There are few Americans who cannot afford to give to missions. Even those who make only $10,000 per year are in the top 10% of global wealth! We personally know the trials of raising a family on such a low income in the United States. We also personally know the joy and freedom of giving to missions, even while we were making so little. Giving to missions is a matter of priority, not a question of affordability.


Myth #4: What I can give is not going to make a difference.


All Christians are commanded to give. Even small gifts make a big difference when God puts it to use. When Jesus fed the five thousand, no one gave him a full catering service to work with; he was given a packed lunch for one kid. The disciples even scoffed at such an insignificant gift. God blessed the gift and multiplied it thousands of times! (See Matthew 14:13-21.)

Jesus also praised the poor widow who had nothing to give but a small penny (Mark 12:41-44). She was blessed by Jesus because she gave sacrificially while everyone else gave out of their excess. 

We are personally supported by individuals who pledge between $10 and $300 per month! Every penny counts!

We are commanded to give. Let God tell you how much and then obey! It is estimated there would be an additional $159 billion available for missions if every Christian in the United States gave something. Sacrificial giving always makes a difference when it is given into the hands of God out of an obedient heart. 


Myth #5: Making a financial commitment to missions is unspiritual.


Many Christians believe giving should be spontaneous, or that we should only give when we feel like it. Some believers have expressed think regular, scheduled giving is unspiritual and legalistic.

The truth of the matter is that habitual giving is a spiritual discipline all Christians are called to exercise (1 Corinthians 16:1-2). Making monthly pledges to a local church and to missionaries forces us to prioritize our finances. God commands us to give first to him, then to everything else. All too often we buy everything we want first, then give God the leftovers. No body likes leftovers. Except chili. Chili is always better the second day.

We had to change the way we thought about giving when we were struggling to make ends meet while we were in college and raising our small family. Every month we paid out all the bills and we had nothing left to give at the end of the month. One day we were convicted on our approach. God commanded the Israelites to give their first fruits, not the leftovers (Leviticus 23:10-14). In Proverbs 3:9,10, God promised to supply the needs of those who "honor the LORD with your wealth and with the first fruits of all your produce." Paul made a similar promise in Philippians 4:19. After we started giving first, we were always able to pay our bills.

This is not a health-and-wealth teaching. Our income didn't increase and we made sacrifices, but our needs were met. The key to understanding this is also found in Philippians 4. Paul taught that he was amply supplied because he had learned to be content (Philippians 4:11-13). When we give our first fruits, we are putting God first in our life. When we put God first, we are radically changed from the inside out. We are no longer slaves to this world, instead we have released the material things of this world in order to seize eternity (1 Timothy 6:17-19).

To make a regular financial pledge to missions is one of the most spiritual things we can do because it results in our personal transformation and it directly advances the Kingdom of God.


And your point is...?


Our goal in writing this blog post is not to convince you to financially support us... really. Our goal in writing this post is to convince you to financially support missions. We do not seek a gift from you, but we seek what may be credited to your account (Philippians 4:17). Missions is the heartbeat of God. If we love God, we will love what he loves. If we too love missions, then we will make it a priority in our lives and demonstrate it by giving financially.

If God is calling you to partner with us financially, then please do so. You can make a commitment by clicking here.

If you do not believe God is calling you to partner with us, and you are not partnering with any other missionaries, then you need to start by finding at least one with whom you can partner. Click here to see a list of missionaries that we know personally. We support five of these ourselves on a monthly basis and know them all to be great investments in the Kingdom of God. 

Let us spend each dollar with eternity in mind! 

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Prayer: Drawing Near the Heartbeat of God

Making God's Heartbeat Our Own

Studying and meditating upon the Word of God is how we learn about those things that are near the heart of God. Prayer is the way we make God's heartbeat our own.

If we attempt to pray without Scripture, we will not fully comprehend God's heart. If we attempt to study Scripture without prayer, we will never be changed into the servants of God we were destined to be. The best way to pray, then, is to pray Scripture - the heart of God.

Stop reading and think about the implications of those two statements for a moment.

In his book The Circle Maker, Mark Batterson described a way to pray Scripture - God's heart - so that our lives and our world are changed to more closely conform to God's purposes. He used the illustration of the Israelites circling Jericho which resulted in God moving in a powerful way. Batterson makes it clear making prayer circles is nothing magical, but it is powerful because it increases our intensity, focus and perseverance as we pray God's heart.

God's Heart: A Quick Look

A quick look at some key passages in the Bible will reveal God's heart has not changed over the millennium.
God chose to make promises on several specific occasions. These promises reveal God's heart over time.

  1. Genesis 3:15 - Right after Adam and Eve sinned, God promised to send a Savior who would redeem the entire human race.
  2. Genesis 12:1-3 - God promised to bless Abram and make him a great nation so that through him all the nations on earth might be blessed.
  3. Exodus 19:3-6 - God promised to make Israel a kingdom of priests. The role of a priest is to represent people before God. It was always God's intention to bring the world to himself through Israel (Jer. 4:1-2).
  4. 2 Samuel 7:12-16 - God promised to make David's kingdom last forever. This promise was ultimately to bring the nations to God (Is. 55:3-5).
  5. Jeremiah 31:31-34 - Israel had failed her God-given mission to be a light to the world, but now God promised he would change them so they could fulfill their mission (Is. 49:6). This promise is ultimately fulfilled in Jesus (Heb. 8:9-13).
  6. Matthew 28:18-20 - Jesus came to show us and enable us to complete the original mission of humans: to point the world to God. Jesus entrusted the completion of God's plan to redeem the world to us and He will not return until we have completed our mission (Rev. 7:9-10)!

Prayer does not only change our heart, it also changes the world around us. We are co-laborers with Christ in bringing all of the world into God's kingdom (1 Cor. 3:9). The Bible implies that until we pray, God chooses not to act! Francis Chan noted in his book Multiply that the Church is God's plan for reaching the world for Christ, and he does not have a plan B. Until we move in prayer and in action, God waits. John Wesley said, "God does nothing but in answer to prayer."

A Plan of Action

We know reaching the world for Christ is the heartbeat of God. Let that truth transform us, you, and all the world so that we accurately reflect the image of God - just as we were created to do. Let it transform us through prayer.

We want you to join us in praying Scripture in circles around our family and the assignment God has given us to serve him at ICSB in Hungary. To facilitate those prayers - and so we are all joining together as a body to pray in a united mind (Mt. 18:20) - we have created a prayer circle that we would like you to print and pray through with us every day. It can be found on our website here.

If you choose to join us in this critical work, please reply to this email and tell us you want to be a part of our prayer team, or you can go here to sign up to receive specific prayer updates as a part of our prayer team. Let us join together as one and change the world through prayer and action as God intended us to do!.

Monday, March 4, 2013

Sharing: Facebook and Beyond

Last month we laid out our game plan to achieve the necessary funding to serve TCKs in Hungary. That plan included four parts: subscribing to our newsletter so you could stay informed, sending us by partnering with us financially, sharing our ministry with others, and supplicating God with specific prayer requests about our ministry.

In the last 30 days we have seen people get involved in all of these areas:

  • Subscribe: 20 new individuals and couples subscribed to our mailing list, 
  • Send: financial support has increased 2%, so we are now 60% funded, 
  • Share: 83 likes on facebook and we have personally met with 4 small groups,
  • Supplication: we have received emails from several individuals pledging their prayers!
Because we are 60% funded, we will be attending the Pre-Departure Training at WorldVenture June 3-6. This is training for those who plan to depart within six months of the training.

What do we mean by "Share?"
There are several ways you can help us keep moving forward. We are really excited about the workshop we have developed. The focus of the workshop is to encourage and equip believers to identify and live their divine purpose. We use our story as a template to develop their own purpose statement. Here is a brief outline of what we do at workshops:
  1. What is the purpose of humanity according to the Bible?
  2. How do we discover God's personal plan for our life?
  3. How do we live that purpose with intentionality?
We are specifically looking for people to host workshops in Cheyenne, Laramie, Fort Collins, Wheatland, (and Denver on the weekends). You can introduce us to new people by inviting us to share with your: 
  • Bible study or small group,
  • church congregation, 
  • Sunday school, or 
  • put together your own group of friends you think might be interested. 
Here's what some who have been through the workshop have to say:

  • "[We] were really blown away by how powerfully God has anointed you."
  • "We were very blessed/honored to have [Dave] share with us. I know that everyone there was very encouraged and challenged to press into God and what He has for their lives."
Shoot us an e-mail or give us a a call to let us know what you have is mind.  We're looking forward to connecting with you! 

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Four Easy-Peasy Ways to Partner with Us

I love the fresh start of a new year!  It's like setting out on the first hike of spring or a putting on a brand new pair of socks - there's nothing quite like it.  The brainstorming and preparing for the next phase of our partner-development push has been in full swing around here for a couple of months and we are happy to be able to share some of our  most recent progress with you.  

Where We Are 
Right now we are sitting at 58% funding of our monthly expenses! Our sending expenses were satisfied in September (for more information on monthly vs. sending expenses click 
here). We have finished all of WorldVenture required reading for a total of 15 hefty books (reports soon to come Cheryl!). 


Where We Are HeadedWe have developed a workshop for small groups that helps singles and families discover their God-given purpose and craft usable mission statements  for life.  Part of this workshop includes sharing our family's journey of drafting a family mission statement and landing on our life's calling: ministry to TCKs (What's a TCK? Click here to read more).  After hours of stuffing and sticking we have our take-home materials ready, and we are counting down the days 'til go time. The plan is to give this presentation of our ministry to well over 20 groups of people over the course of the next few months. Additionally, we are currently creating an e-booklet which will accompany our workshop and which we will also make available to those of you not in the Cheyenne area.  We can't say too much just yet, but we will share the title: "Carpe Aeternitatem: Developing and Living out Your Divine Purpose, Everyday." Fist pump!  

What You Can Do
As you know there is no "I" in team.  There really aren't any useful words in team except the word "tea" which doesn't help us much here.  The point is, we need you to get involved and here are four ways you can get off the bench:
Subscribe:
If you're getting these e-mails, you're already doing this one, so good for you! Look at you, team player!
Send:
Whether through cash gifts or a monthly/regular pledge all of your generous support goes towards sending us and keeping us on the mission field and in the classroom at ICSB. If you need a reminder, we are with WorldVenture and you can give 
here.
Share:
This is where you can make a big impact with minimal effort.  We always need to get the word out to more people so head over to our
 facebook page and give us a like, share our blog posts, pictures and websit
e information on your timeline and with your friends.  If you don't do facebook, you can always forward emails to people who might be interested. Don't forget word of mouth too.  Shoot us an e-mail if you think you could use a stack of our business card, brochures or magnets to pass to friends, colleagues and fellow public-transportation riders. 
Supplicate:
This fancy word simply means pray for us!  To go to Hungary with sufficient funds but insufficient prayer will only result in disaster. We ask you to bring our family and our requests before God as the persistent widow in Luke 18:1-7 .  You can find our current prayer requests 
here.
Thank you, thank you for your partnership! We cannot wait to see what God will do in the next few months! Stay tuned for updates!

Sunday, January 20, 2013

There and Back Again


Mr. K in action!
The trip to Hungary was an eventful week that gave Jenn and me valuable look into the country where we will soon be living. 
Of particular benefit was the time we spent at the International Christian School of Budapest, where we observed the culture and dynamics of ICSB, where I will be teaching middle-school social studies. 

     I spent time meeting with my future colleagues at ICSB. Of particular note, I had several productive conversations with the head of school and the middle-school principal. Through our conversations I was able to see the challenges and rewards of teaching at ICSB. Hungary is often a discouraging mission field (Why Hungary?) and this was confirmed on our trip; teachers at ICSB are not immune, even though ICSB is a healthy environment. Candid conversations with teachers instilled in me a deeper understanding of the need for teachers who are committed to serving long-term.

     I also gained insight into the diverse nature of the school, where there are currently 22 nations represented. I sampled the social-studies classes and met the students I will be teaching next fall. It was amazing to hear all the different places they are from. The first question every student asked me was, "Where are you from?" I was proud to explain where Wyoming was and inform that it was indeed a state! Because of this trip, Jenn and I both have a clearer understanding of how our ministry vision will translate into action.

     After speaking with friends at ICSB and our WorldVenture team in Hungary, we have set our target departure date to Hungary as July 1, 2013. Of course, we will not be going anywhere until we have received pledges for all of our monthly living expenses. Please pray and consider how you can be a part of ministry to TCKs in Hungary!

This article was originally published by Dave and Jenn Kelley on another site in early November, 2012.

   Want to see pictures from our trip? Look for the slide shows on the Photo AlbumWhy Hungary? andWhy ICSB? pages!

We can get there, but we can't live there!



Big news this month! Our sending expenses are one hundred percent met! (Insert Jenn's raise the roof happy dance here.) What are sending expenses? This is the category of our budget that encompasses all that we will need to move and set up house in Hungary.  Things like cross-cultural training, language training, plane tickets, visas, driver licenses, vehicle, deposit on a dwelling etc. are included


So why aren't we on our way? Well, in addition to funds to get us set up in Hungary we also need to live while we are there. (Dave's teaching job is 100% volunteer and he isn't paid a dime by the school.) Monthly expenses encompass our daily living expenses.  Things like groceries, rent, utilities, health insurance, etc.are a part of this category.

As we write, we are 46.5% funded in our monthly expenses category. To be fully funded we need the equivalent of 10 more $100 per month partners, 20 more $50 per month partners and 34 more $30 per month partners.  Please join us in earnestly praying that more people catch the vision of reaching TCKs for Christ and come on board as monthly financial partners.

What about those of you that are already giving? Please keep it up! The gifts that you send in have brought us this far and will now continue to build our monthly expenses fund. 

Did you notice our Hungary Scouting Trip countdown? Only 12 days left! Look for our October update to be filled with photos and stories about life in Budapest and Diosd. Check out our prayer request page to get more detailed prayer requests!

This article was originally published by Dave and Jenn Kelley on another site in late September, 2012.